Author archive: noctovis

How loss is survived

How loss is survived

I had a terrible day today. A lot of things happened that transported me all the way back to the day my OB told me were going to lose our daughter, that she was never going to live, that she would never grow up, learn to walk, go to school, play with her friends, fall…

Counting blessings

Counting blessings

The second part of 2012 and 2013 has been a rough time for us. Lots of issues came our way that we weren’t expecting, that we weren’t prepared for. It seemed like everything was going wrong. Frank and I fought through it, and finally saw light in the darkness when we held that positive pregnancy…

Featured as Inspirational Bereaved Parent

Hello everyone! Just a quick note to inform you guys that I’m being featured as an Inspirational Bereaved Parent on Lindsey’s blog at Stillborn and Still Breathing! First of all I would like to say: If you’re here because you’re going through a loss, don’t hesitate to check out her blog. Her words are honest,…

About Little Wonders

About Little Wonders

Today I would like to share a story. A story of a bereaved mother I met through a mutual friend. It’s a story about a truly inspirational person, wife, friend and especially, a mother. A story of love, grief, loss, photography, beauty and healing. Sharon started blogging during her second pregnancy, to openly share her…

Another angelversary goes by

Another angelversary goes by

Today is that day again. The 7th of the month. The day that marks three months since Sahar joined and left this Earth on the same day. Whenever a new month starts my heart breaks a little, knowing that the 7th will soon arrive. I don’t like these days. They only mark how long she’s…

The wall of hope

The wall of hope

When we lost our baby, one of the first things I wanted to do was create a space for Sahar here at home. I’ve posted about it a few times already and I’m still working on it every single day. But it’s not only healing to create a space for your baby at home, it’s…

Grief cannot be fixed

Grief cannot be fixed

It’s been almost three months since we lost our little girl. It’s not only hard to handle this loss, but it’s also very hard to handle all the comments and wrong reactions of the people around us. Although I realize that everyone means the very best for us, these comments are still hurtful. Here’s a…

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